There is alcoholism and mental illness in every branch of my tree. Betsey Turner (Grout) Lansil’s death certificate, lists her cause of death, as “Dropsy caused by Scirrhus of Liver”. Although cirrhosis has a number of causes, I immediately pictured a mean, old, crotchety, drunk.
Betsey Turner (Grout) Lansil, daughter of Amos Grout and Rachael Couillard is my 3rd g-grandmother.
She was born 3 June 1813 in Frankfort, Maine.
On 2 November 1834 she married Asa Paine Lansil, son of Charles V. Lansil/Lansell and Ruth Paine, in Frankfort or Bucksport, Maine.
They had six known children:
- Enoch Howard Lansil (b. 1836, who never appears in any censuses)
- Edwin Lansil (b. 1839 – my 2nd g-grandfather)
- Frances “Fannie” Ellen Lansil (b. 1841)
- Walter “Waddie” Franklin Lansil (b. 1846, a famous marine artist - http://tinyurl.com/ltlubsw)
- Asa Brainard Lansil (b. 1849)
- Wilbur “Bibber” Henry Lansil (b. 1855, a famous cattle painter)
Enoch, Edwin and Frances were baptized at the Hammond Street Church in Bangor, according to correspondence in Aunt Natalie’s genealogy files.
From 1843 to 1848, Betsey’s family was living on 101 Hammond, a brick tenement in the Bangor neighborhood of Barkerville. Asa’s brother Charles (wife Louisa and baby) lived at the same address.
In 1850, Betsey and Asa were enumerated in Bangor with Edwin, Francis E., Walter and Asa B. Asa was a Cooper with real estate valued at $1,000 . In 1851 the family was on Main St. (likely 101 Hammond was on the corner of Hammond and Main); Asa worked as a Cooper on 61 Broad St., perhaps with his brothers James & Ephraim.
Asa’s sister, Mary (Lansil) Dudley died in 1856; and one of her children, Sarah Elizabeth Dudley, joined the family temporarily. Enumerated with the family in 1860, as a domestic servant, was Melissa Paul, age 16 (perhaps a boarder or relative as her family lived next door to Asa’s brother Thomas Lansil in 1850). Edwin, Fannie, Walter, Asa B. and Wilbur were all living at home.
By 1860, Asa’s assets had risen to $3,500 and Edwin was his dad’s only employee. The father and son team produced barrels, buckets, water casks and cisterns. Asa had $200 invested in the business, and annually produced products valued at $1,000. In 1857, they sold to the town a cistern for $25, and horse buckets for $9. In 1861, for $23, they sold a cistern for use at the city stable . They do not appear in the Maine IRS tax lists from1862-6 (only Asa’s brothers Charles V. & George made the list), indicating (perhaps) that neither Edwin or Asa profited much in these years.
In 1870 only Betsey, Asa, Walter, Asa B. & Wilbur resided at the 101 Hammond St. home. Asa’s net worth had risen to $5,500. Walter had become his dad’s only employee, in a business now netting $1,200 annually.
By the early 1870′s Betsey’s children Edwin and Frances “Fannie” had relocated to Boston. Edwin was not found in the 1870 census but in 1871 he is listed in the Bangor City Directory as living in East Boston. Their brother, Asa B. soon followed.
In 1863 Fannie had married a wealthy lumberman, Carleton Sylvanus Bragg, Jr. In 1870 the 31 year old’s net worth was $35,000, [about $625,000 in 2014 buying power]. Bragg’s dad Carleton, Sr., was worth $50,000 that same year [about $893,000 in 2014 buying power]. In 1870/1 Betsy’s son Edwin, son-in-law Bragg and a Henry Jones started a lumber business under the name “Jones, Bragg & Lansil” in East Boston. They purchased property for $2,146.37; four parcels totaling 5,625 feet on Maverick and Lamson.
Carlton’s obituary in the Bangor Daily Whig And Courier, Friday, November 05, 1880 /Page-3 summarizes their move:
In 1871, the town assessed a $700 tax on the Bangor edifice which housed Asa’s business. The road had been widened, thus increasing the value of the property. Perhaps the rent was raised which may have hastened Asa and Betsey’s decision to relocate.
Asa P. soon put the family horse, sleigh & robes and the house on the market in preparation for the family’s move to Boston.
Asa, Betsey, Walter and Wilbur joined Edwin, Asa B. , Frances and Carleton in East Boston about 1872/3. They initially boarded at 119 Webster (Fannie & Carleton then moved to 39 White, East Boston). Soon Asa Sr. and Edwin purchased a home together for $5,600 on Trenton, at the corner of Putnam (lot 169, sec 3)
Massachusetts Land Deeds – book 1137, pg 179-180, 9 Dec 1872
By 1876 the Braggs joined the family on Trenton.
159 Trenton Street as it looks in 2013 (the big brown one on the right corner)
Directly across the street is a nice park, it likely looked different, but it was there when the Lansil’s were there (and yes, that is my very patient husband sitting near the fountain).
Betsey, Asa, her 5 living children, her son-in law Carleton and teenage grandchildren Edwin, Fred and Florence Bragg plus a”domestic”, were enumerated in the 1880 East Boston census still residing on 159 Trenton:
Sadly, later in 1880, Betsey’s son-in-law, Fannie’s husband, Carleton passed away suddenly on 1 Nov 1880 after being sick for just two days. The cause was apoplexy (sudden loss of consciousness, sensation, and voluntary motion) .
About four months later, on 3 March 1881, Betsey, died of “dropsy caused by scirrhus of the liver”. At the time of her death she was still living at 159 Trenton Street and was 67 years and 9 months. She was buried at Mount Hope Cemetery, State Street, Bangor, Maine; Lot 407CG, which has no grave marker.
That’s it…. Nothing more. Impersonal records offering residences, children’s names and husband’s occupation. Not even an obituary found in the local Boston or East Boston papers.
BUT THEN…. I visited Bangor, Maine. The Hammond Street Church records were preserved. I let them know in advance I was coming. The folks there and at the Bangor Library (who hold some of the church books in their basement) were wonderful! I had an amazing visit!
They had record of Asa and Betsey joining the church in 1842:
Betsey’s signature when she joined the church:
Baptism and Sunday School records for her children, evidence that Asa and son Edwin were Sunday School teachers, a notice that her son Enoch had died at the age of 6, her husband’s Asa’s death notice…..
And Betsey’s death record:
Died in East Boston March 3, 1881. Mrs. Betsey (Grout) Lansil, aged 68.
Mrs. L. was born in Frankfort, June 3, 1813 [YAY! Her birthday!!] the daughter of Rachael and Amos (Couillard) Grout [YAY! evidence of her parents names].
Married Asa P. Lansil at Frankfort by Archibald Jones, November 2, 1834 [YAY! a marriage date! - Asa's death notice gives the same date but specifies that they married in Bucksport, Maine].
She was received to membership of this church in profession of faith, with her husband and seventeen others Sep. 4, 1842. Seven of these have since died. The following letter to the one who should officiate at her funeral in Bangor by Rev. S. P. Fay, her former Pastor, expresses well her character.
It was read by Professor Paine at the funeral. [? perhaps Levi Leonard Paine]
And there, in the church books – the letter from Betsey’s former pastor - A eulogy. Simple but powerful. She becomes a real person. My image was all wrong, she was a wonderful wife, mother and friend.
Service in Bangor at the house of Edward P Lansil, a brother of Asa P. Sabath ____, March 4 [?], 1881
Pardon me for saying a word to you of the deceased, whose funeral you will be asked to attend. I should have been glad to have gone down and spoken of her whom I knew so well to the dear friends of Hammond St. church who will be at her funeral. I should have been glad from my quite intimate acquaintance with her for now nearly fifteen years to have borne testimony touching her love to her family, – pure, tender and wise as it was her faithfulness to her husband and her fidelity to her faith in Christ.
Her sickness was long, and very painful, but she never complained in it all. She never felt that God was dealing hardly with her. Death had lost its sting to her. Among her last utterances, she repeated the 23d Psalm and then said, – “I should love to remain with you all, but I am not afraid to go”, and again, – “it is better I should go.”
She was cheerful in sickness, hopeful in adversity and leaned upon the promises of God with childlike affection. Such was her faith in Christ, that she could look death in the face without fear.
May god give right words of comfort and instruction to speak to the husband and children that loved her with pure and sincere affection.
I shall remember her as one of the purest and most faithful of the many dear souls I have buried of the Hammond Street Church.
___ in Christ, signed S. P. Fay
Mr. Fay conducted a service at East Boston, churchs [?] before the removal of the remains to Bangor.
Bearers at the funeral in Bangor. Deacs Dusen [?] & Webster, S. F. Jones and John P. Davis.
About Rev. S. P. Fay:
It appears that Fay was her former pastor at the Hammond Street Church, he was enumerated in Bangor in 1880, but relocated to a church in Dorchester, Massachusetts later in 1880. This explains how he was able to be at her bedside and hold a funeral service for Betsey in East Boston and why he would write a letter back to his former parish speaking of the many he buried there.